Initial Disclosure: Fantasies emerge in private conversations, often starting with the dominant partner revealing violent or sexual ideation; the submissive partner mirrors or amplifies to build rapport, as incongruities between fantasy and reality are minimized through normalization.[core]
• Reinforcement Loop: Acting on partial fantasies (e.g., minor crimes) produces arousal and bonding; virtual or psychological “spaces” like pornography or discussions update the fantasy, making full enactment irresistible.[core]
• Escalation to Reality: Shared success erodes inhibitions, with emotional dysregulation and deviant scripts coupling to propel from thought to offense, especially in pairs with psychopathic traits.[pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih]
Influencing Factors
Pre-existing pathologies like narcissism or sexual sadism predispose partners to align fantasies, while hybristophilia in one sustains the dynamic. Co-offending amplifies compulsivity, as mutual validation turns solitary ideation into a relational high, rarely dissipating without external intervention.[journals.sagepub +1]