Interesting insights..
https://blossom.primal.net/15773cad370055d7d2dcbc1b0ce21b4563661cff77fb3934a780f9a3326cdc66.mp4
Maybe there were soul mates at one time but someone picked the wrong one and it all went hay wire. haha
Expectations can be dangerous in a relationship, particularly when you expect another person to solve your problems. Or when your "love" is conditional.
Love others for who they are, and because they are additive to your happiness, not the reason for it. Dont burden others with a bruised and outsized ego.
Peace.