🤔. I'm not so sure about that. I know some people, both men and women, who I would describe as heroically modest and I would never categorize them as being frigid in any way. Actually, from my experience, they're quite the opposite.
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To add to this, they might have high self-esteem and comfort while wearing their approved style (which might not appear "sexy" to others) out and that might translate to feeling sexy at home.
I don't think I've ever left home feeling "sexy". When I dress nicely and get the sideways glance and smirk from hubby then I'm desirable and know what's happening when we get home, but I dress modestly. One can highlight her assets while covering them after all.