Welcome back. I don’t care what anyone personally finds attractive. Again: respect and reverence for others goes a long way. It’s the lack of empathy & kindness that disgusts me. Been dealing with it lifelong 🫂
👇 Basic AF mid 40s yo woman. Definitely overweight because of multiple factors.
Truth is: I kinda love being almost invisible now 🫥 as opposed to constantly being looked as prey. As a younger woman, always had to prove myself in multiple ways the men didn’t.
Then again, I chose a male-dominant career ( military) & then went FED. It is what it is.