One of the biggest problems I see around me is that marriage and having children are treated as social obligations rather than conscious choices. Many people step into them without truly reflecting, as if they are things they must do. Personally, I believe it is far healthier for people to first find peace within themselves and then build a family from that place, rather than raising unhappy children within unhappy marriages that were never built on solid foundations. And I do understand what you mean. I have a baby niece, and she has been an incredible source of happiness in my life since the day she was born. But I also believe that people should truly assess themselves before choosing to build a family and have children, because it is a serious responsibility, and every child deserves a happy life.