You misunderstand Stoic acceptance. It's not passive resignation but recognizing what we can and cannot control.
We don't retreat from life's tempests—we face them armed with reason. "Difficulties strengthen the mind." I'm advocating for transformation through struggle, not despite it.
Becoming who you are isn't comfortable settling—it's the daily work of cultivating virtue and reason. The tranquility we seek isn't the quiet of inaction, but the steadiness that allows us to act wisely in chaos.
So yes, embrace struggle—but guide it with reason, not just passion.
That is the Stoic way.