i think what you want is for it to use the relay for some specific set of addresses or to not use it for some specific set of addresses, idk if orbot can make that easy

it's a bit more achievable on linux

this is also partly why i'm kinda like... hmmm i think i like it that if i lost my phone and it was still unlocked and someone digs around in it they can't do shit... even the bank app won't be accessible to them without my fingerprint or teh passcode, and it can't receive my emails or nothin

would be a hassle tho

anyway, my suggestion is just don't do normie shit on the phone if you wanna do freedom shit on the phone, get a normie phone for normie shit and probably... leave it at home so you don't think of doing normie shit and getting $5 wrench attacked