see, training failure with the woman.

if you recognise that you are the one who is supposed to be coordinating everything so it runs smoothly you will regain your sanity.

just remember you are not 'the boss' but rather, the one who is genetically wired towards management.

if the wrong routine is happening, take over it, and then demonstrate how it works, and then firmly demand that this proper way of doing things is followed.

and again, and again, and never let up until they all buckle.

the moment you give in they will walk all over you.