No your explanation makes complete sense.
I guess my view is simply that I’d prefer to have those Sats eaten in fees for the utility of having automated splits.
A 10% tithe is kind of what I was thinking, #[7] mentioned similar in his recent pod too - this is something I think every Nostrich should be willing to participate in to help fund the builders in V4V. Given the order of operations matters to the fees, I could simply set my tithe split as the first route for payment and then any fees would be eaten in my remaining 90%.
Since zaps are an unexpected bounty - ie, I’m receiving these because somebody else valued my content, not because I agreed a price and transacted - I’m not so bothered losing Sats to a tx fee as they weren’t my Sats to begin with, I’m still benefiting from the Zap and instead of 90 landing in my wallet I get 85 but my chosen devs get their 10, well end of the day that has served its purpose.