This is the beauty of Nostr: no mods. In those communities, you may deceive yourself into believing that you are a part of a community. However, the real community is the one built by the mod team on a hidden Discord or IRC, and even they could be discarded because there is always something more appealing for the head of the community to pursue. The circlejerk always prevails over the members, and the main admin always triumphs over the circlejerk. Then they split and the cycle begins anew under a new admin. Do yourself a favor and stop bootlicking mods and admins.