Yeah I got that too. The survivability of the relay network is an issue, but I think its solvable because there is an underlying store of value in the bitcoin network. Other attempts at decentralisation failed due to there being limited finance or supply of value.

Other wise, being used to userbility out of the box is a very modern phenomenon. Nostr takes time to learn. And through that learning comes understanding of much wider concepts. Something I myself struggle with.

Unfortunately some people are going to be left behind. And that might even be us.