Playing the victim card is pathetic. The expectation that core devs can do whatever they want without any negative response from node runners shows how inconsequential you think Bitcoin is. This isn't your average, sleepy foss project with a few hundred users who all completely trust the devs. This is the most important foss project in history and the behavior of core recently has been unbelievably irresponsible. I don't condone the worst behavior, but sadly this will always be present on the internet. So either accept that reality or work on something else. And maybe try listening to your users instead of insulting them.