If you want privacy, you can use Bitcoin pretty pseudonomously pretty easily now by utilizing a combination of lightning, Liquid with nostr:npub1psm37hke2pmxzdzraqe3cjmqs28dv77da74pdx8mtn5a0vegtlas9q8970

There's also eCash Cashu.

P2P exchanges like robosats or bisq.

Lots of ways to use Bitcoin very privately. Cut the 💩coins out when you're comfortable. I believe in you. If you want more info or need some help I'm sure many people would be glad to help and I would be too. 🤙