Now I see what you mean when you say the blossom big patch was better (but I still think the PR flow is nicer and the blossom big patch flow would have other problems not immediately obvious).
Maybe having a personal list of grasp servers, like we have for blossom servers, would help. Then you would know what are the default grasp servers for each user to use in these situations, then you just assume they will accept your stuff.
I wonder if we could have a different kind of announcement, with an expiration tag or something like that, that would allow grasp servers to delete the associated repositories after a while and also prevent these temporary forks from being associated too much with a specific user.