Here you're talking about vendors, not zap recipients? I'd say those are very distinct modes of value transfer.
The zapper wants his value transfer to be seen by everybody and the zapped goes along with it with zero hurry and little concerns about settlement.
The buyer and vendor want privacy and immediate settlement.
I want my nostr client to disregard nut zaps that are not confirmed by the recipient or a trusted mint. The recipient might trust different mints than myself.