what ? did that pedo really say that we should groom children for sex ?

well, the reality is from a moment a child is born adults are grooming them to be something the adults want them to be. it's just that the grooming is done by parents and teachers rather than by prospective husband.

parents teach children to always respect, love and obey parents.

teachers teach children to always respect, love and obey teachers and other government authorities.

a Muslim husband of a 9 year old girl teaches her to respect, love and obey her husband.

tell me - what is the difference ?