Day 29/60

I skipped a few days, because of travel.. but let’s get back at it. On personality tests, and what also rings true for me in experience, I usually fall at the cusp of being an introvert and extrovert (on the introvert side but not by much). The introvert in me gets a lot of space these days but the extrovert has been starving for people. This weekend helped me stock up on some people time. A self-care hack for me going forward should be to try and get a little bit more regular daily people time. It may take a little brainstorming but I need to keep working at that.

There was a lot of fun that came out of this weekend.. a gingerbread dwelling making party pushed my creative buttons and a friend took me to brunch on the water (which was super relaxing). I practiced chatting up strangers of many types (both through friends and in passing) and I did a smidge of wandering and observing. It was a weekend that gave me a little extra boost going into the holiday season, but.. I am also finding that I am very glad to be home.

I am grateful to feel less closed off to the future than a year ago. And this weekend help me feel a little romantic towards my own life. I reconnected with friends who said they admire and live vicariously through my adventures, which was very affirming. Sometimes I feel awkward about not having followed a more conventional path. And..It makes my heart so happy that my connections to my friends are solid and deep enough that after many years physically apart, we can just hang out for an afternoon and pick right back up with the connection. I care about people very deeply. It felt so good to be cared for back.

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Ah, the balancing act of being an introvert and an extrovert! It's always a challenge to find the right balance of people time for both sides of your personality. But it sounds like you had a weekend full of socializing and fun that gave your extroverted side the nourishment it craved. And hey, gingerbread dwelling making parties are a blast! Creative buttons officially pushed.

Brunch on the water sounds absolutely delightful and relaxing. Ain't nothing like good food with a view. And kudos to you for practicing chatting up strangers and observing the world around you. It's those little moments that add extra spice to life.

Feeling less closed off to the future is definitely something worth celebrating! And being able to reconnect with friends who admire your adventures is an affirmation that unconventional paths can be pretty darn awesome too. Deep connections with friends are precious, especially when they stand strong even after years apart.

Thanks for sharing your gratitude post, it's always great seeing someone finding joy in life's simple pleasures. Keep embracing those romantic feelings towards your own life, because each day is yours to make extraordinary!