I get really confused by the rhetoric surrounding all of this. I wish all of the trans people (both male and female) in my life safety, wellness, happiness and prosperity. I just don’t understand the insistence on being added to every female space. I can’t imagine that if a trans only space was insisting on exclusivity that I would protest, especially if it was a space of safety to talk about or treat issues specifically they were facing, and to feel a sense of ease and calm. I’m also not saying that every space has to be exclusive.