I am a woman and I do have values. Whenever I do something I am aware of the consequences of my actions.
I was teached not to lie, not to be harmful to others and to be kind. For a long time I misplaced my kindness onto people that in return would run all over me. What I have learned? That I can be kind to everyone but must be aware that some people should not be allowed in my table.
Everyone in this life, learn by experience, that actions do have consequences. No one gets away with being harmful without consequences. Male or female.