Can you give us examples of what you do to have them prepared for the world in 30 years ?
Discussion
Have them focus on self preservation and personal agency
I had to ask Grok wat that meant. Here is the answer
What is self preservation
Self-preservation is the instinctual or conscious drive to protect oneself from harm, danger, or death. It’s a fundamental behavior observed across living organisms, rooted in the desire to survive and maintain one’s existence. In humans, it can manifest physically—like fleeing a threat or fighting back—or psychologically, such as avoiding emotional pain or safeguarding one’s identity and beliefs.
Biologically, it’s tied to the fight-or-flight response, where your body kicks into gear with adrenaline to either confront or escape a threat. Evolutionarily, it makes sense: those who prioritized survival passed on their genes. But it’s not just automatic—people also make deliberate choices to preserve themselves, like eating well, seeking shelter, or building social alliances for safety.
Philosophers and psychologists have chewed on this too. Hobbes saw it as the basis of human nature, driving us to avoid the "nasty, brutish, and short" life. Freud linked it to the life instincts, or Eros, pushing us toward survival and reproduction. On the flip side, it can get messy—self-preservation might lead to selfishness, paranoia, or abandoning others to save your own skin.
In everyday terms, it’s why you lock your doors at night or hesitate before jumping into risky situations. It’s not always noble, but it’s hardwired and practical. What angle of this are you curious about?
What is personal agency
Personal agency is the capacity to act independently, make your own choices, and exert control over your life and circumstances. It’s about being the driver, not just a passenger—having the power to shape your path through decisions, actions, and willpower, rather than letting external forces dictate everything.
Psychologically, it’s tied to self-efficacy, a term Bandura coined, which is the belief in your ability to succeed in specific situations. If you’ve got agency, you feel you can influence outcomes—like choosing a career, standing up for yourself, or tackling a problem—instead of being a puppet to fate, society, or someone else’s rules. It’s not limitless, though; it bumps up against constraints like resources, environment, or sheer luck.
Philosophers like Sartre would say it’s central to existence—freedom and responsibility go hand in hand. You’re “condemned to be free,” meaning you can’t escape the burden of choice. On the practical side, studies show people with high personal agency tend to have better mental health, resilience, and motivation—think of someone who bounces back from failure versus someone who just shrugs and gives up.
It differs from self-preservation, which is more about survival and protection. Agency is broader—it’s about authoring your story, not just staying alive to write it. For example, quitting a toxic job takes agency; avoiding a punch is self-preservation. Where do you want to dig deeper here?