after delving into the outbox model ( https://mikedilger.com/gossip-model/ ) I'm realizing it is much simpler than I thought, and makes perfect sense. thank you nostr:nprofile1qqswuyd9ml6qcxd92h6pleptfrcqucvvjy39vg4wx7mv9wm8kakyujgpypmhxue69uhkx6r0wf6hxtndd94k2erfd3nk2u3wvdhk6w35xs6z7qgwwaehxw309ahx7uewd3hkctcpypmhxue69uhkummnw3ezuetfde6kuer6wasku7nfvuh8xurpvdjj7a0nq40 for pushing this through.
if you are working with nostr clients, this should be on your reading list