i use start9 OS >> LND >> lnbits >> lnaddress.com for self- sovereign zap receiving. For sending I use:

Android >> Mutiny Wallet >> nostr connect

Desktop Computer >> Start 9 OS >> LND >> Alby Extension

https://community.start9.com/t/how-to-set-up-your-start9-lightning-node-via-lnbits-with-an-lightning-address-from-lnaddress-com/507