“Well, you don’t have to, but that’s the only way it works right now. If you don’t have the time then nobody can fix that for you.”

This further validates my point. New users expect those ideas/connections/groups/discussions to already exist. And when they realize they don’t.. they don’t have the time to do it. Unless someone spends hours of their day on nostr, which.. lets hope they are healthy & don’t, they are alienated & leave to spaces that do already have it. ie. other platforms