Sir, "Most relays" ≠ "all relays". 64KB Max for a JSON payload is too small for 2025 standards. Plenty of folks have large lists on Nostr (and not only follow lists). "This isn’t a bug, it’s a feature" isn’t a great answer to this one if we want Nostr to grow. I had over 3k connections myself on most social media networks other than Nostr and Fedi, and I'm no social butterfly. We need a proper encryption scheme for payloads over 64 KB, assuming NIP-44 can’t already handle this.