you dont want to litigate cause you're wrong.
you cant evaluate, as an end user, exactly *what* privacy guarantees you are getting from an LN tx.
what you're doing is just hand waving "oh LN fixes this"
like maxis have been doing for about 5 years now.
LN is cool, I use it.
it does NOT fix Bitcoin privacy.
also
Monero has a shitton of development.
"its difficult to build on" is just outright ignorant.
the points you raised are flat out incorrect.