posting this in case anyone runs into the same issue my nostr:npub1aghreq2dpz3h3799hrawev5gf5zc2kt4ch9ykhp9utt0jd3gdu2qtlmhct node arrived yesterday and kept seemingly crashing with no real cause (temp was fine according to umbrel, usage was fine) if I turned it off, waiting 5 minutes then booted it it would get a few more minutes of syncing - I changed dbcache size in the bitcoin node settings to 6000mb which has stopped it, I'm not entriely sure why