Say whatever you want and deal with the consequences.

agree with the second for sure, but what course of action do you think is better than "What's wrong" if you can tell something is wrong?

What's the alternative?

How are you feeling?

How can I support you?

Would you like a hug?

Would you like me to hold you?

I've got you!

I have your back! Everything will be all right.

??

Shoot, I've been trying these on my 2 y/o this past month. Hasn't really worked anyways 😂