The more you know… ok but the two hop thing would mitigate this right? Could have the exchange send to a wos address and then on to your own node? Or do the double node thing. That should work right?
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I'm not an expert at Lightning privacy by any means, but I think that should be right. Just note if you use WoS as the first hop, they see the second hop. There's also a service called LN Proxy you might look into. I don't fully understand it but I think it is meant to mask the final destination.