i do not know michelle obama so i am unable to explain her choices.
i was insulted, hung up on, silenced, and ignored for all of 2024 by my family after my aunt died, and i was not given concrete details about the funeral after expressly saying i wished to attend. which is why i was not there. and they know that. but they lie because at the time, they believed i was vulnerable. they were incorrect. and they are still learning who holds their proof of work.
if those 2 conversations are tied together.
she died a year ago tomorrow. 🔒