I agree! Especially about the part of being together and apart at the same time… the person I most recently dated was a v high performer and his work requires more travel than anyone I’ve ever met (which meant I lived out of a suitcase sometimes and/or went weeks on end without seeing him) I really liked him and he really liked me and we had to figure out the way to make exactly what you said work… being together, apart.

Ultimately, we weren’t in love though and I think love is the glue that binds in those situations to your point- commitment and loving the way you’d want yourself loved :) and being willing to release that which is not meant for you once you know that truth

You have a great day too! ☕️