Ladies, when you married your husband, you didn’t just promise love, you promised to be the only place he could breathe.

He shut out every other woman.

Every fantasy.

Every escape.

He made you his only source of intimacy, mentally and physically.

But what happens when the one place he’s allowed to turn… disappears?

What happens when the woman he married lets herself go, emotionally, mentally, and yes, physically too?

No one’s saying stay 25 forever.

But preserving your health, your energy, your body, it matters.

Not because he’s shallow, but because men are wired that way.

Sex isn’t a luxury for him.

It’s not a mood.

It’s oxygen.

He gave up every other source, trusting you would be there, just as he vowed to be there for you.

If he’s distant, frustrated, or shutting down…

Maybe it’s not because he’s cruel.

Maybe it’s because he’s suffocating.

Love is constant. But desire needs cultivation.

Marriage means being both his heart and his fire.