I paid for x4 relays in the past year or so, and now these relays have shut down .. why would I pay for this type of "service"?

Also, as a non techy type of guy, I have trouble understanding relays and how to use them effectively.. is there not a "one relay to rule them all" kind of thing? (Well, maybe not a single relay for everything, but a relay for notes, one for messages, one for drafts, etc)

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