Was a little surprised to see this get a lot of interaction on ovarit. I mean for me it's the most trite, self evident and a given thing and the preachest to choirest but they were reacting as if "finally someone said it" which means that in their lives it's not an obvious and fully accepted idea. It would be all well and good if women also didn't lose it every time I suggest that women's desire to have children might not be their own 100% natural informed pressure-free choicy choice