These messages are confusing but perhaps we're trying to encourage the wrong behavior. Traditionally an invoice is not shared publicly but shared with one person or org that is meant to pay it.
We already have zaps that work great when many wish to contribute to somebody. Perhaps the best course of action is to remove invoices from prominent kinds of posts.
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