nostr:npub1vyrx2prp0mne8pczrcvv38ahn5wahsl8hlceeu3f3aqyvmu8zh5s7kfy55 you should always be grateful for what you are given, but as a corollary you should never allow the fact that you do not owe other people these things to convince you that it's acceptable that you withhold them at all times. for the condition of your soul, you should give them freely when you are able and when the specific circumstances do not bar it.
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caveats based in should are the seed bed of tyranny. disguised as altruism.
all generosity is voluntary. if it isn’t, its based in collective totalitarianism, or a cult. which are really the same thing.
you cannot be generous without the freedom to say no.
you owe no one anything.