Which client are you having the follow issues with?
Discussion
Right now I'm looking at my feed through Primal, although I noticed on Damus it seems to be having issues also
Your contact list is not on some of your relays. Specifically wss://eden.nostr.land , wss://nostr.land, and wss://nostr.wine. That could possibly cause problems. I think those are all paid relays. I used nak CLI to check your relays.