Blue light, seed oils, sleep medication for over 20 yrs, vaccinations, never taking accountability, several head traumas, no good friends, etc
My brother is the embodiment of everything fiat.
After visiting my parents yesterday and talking with him, when I got in my car I just started crying. It's my fucking twin brother and even though he's alive. I already know he's lost beyond repair..
This world can be truly cruel. So sad, I’m really sorry man.
I already learned to deal with it. I already lost real connection with him several years ago. I just try to be my best self and make sure my kids (if I ever have some) will never have to deal with this or end up like this.
Thanks for wanting to listen man 🫂
Every day is a new day, so I'd not count anyone lost completely beyond repair, even if to an extent everyone has some damage that will never fully be reversible.
That said, it can be a real uphill battle. Especially with head trauma. Sometimes wake up calls come and can actually help though. My brother recently wound up in the hospital after losing over 50 lbs not eating and on the verge of a diabetic coma. He finally let me know he was interested in picking up running after all these years of being a couch potato.
We'll see what sticks. At the end of the day you do have to give people room to make their own decisions, but that doesn't mean you have to completely give up hope.
I know what you're trying to say, but my brother is really far gone.
He recently crashed his car and when I asked how he did it, he replied: it's because people were playing a racing game and crashed their car, that's why my car crashed.
I told him: that's totally unrelated and bullshit.
His reply: don't you know that's how it works. When someone plays a fighting game, people have fights in the real world.
I try to have a positive mindset, but my brother's brain is just fried
