We have various custodians in the Bitcoin ecosystem. Yes, I personally prefer non custodial solutions and will always help someone self custody their funds. But the act of the matter here is that the majority of Nostr users are using Lightning wallets for Zaps on platforms in which they control zero keys. Shitting on a Nostr custodian is a bit hypocritical in comparison when there's a good chance you're using a custodial Lightning wallet. We can be better here.