with outbox and nip42 we could sufficiently distribute the metadata, but it would still be subpoenable. Maybe thats a start at least. If noone else will update strfry I will likely have to start hacking on it to add this
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gift wraps do not reduce relay-related risk while increasing implementation complexity.
The "implementation complexity" part is the reason I don't implement it. It's not only about the complexity of implementing it once, it's about the future complexity of changing it if it becomes a tech debt.
Personal inbox, or hell even a community relay. With NIP-42.
Anything to prevent companies like Primal from mass-aggregating messages.