In a totally unrelated note to your conversation, the private relay on umbrel automatically syncs your notes from some main relays, so no need to connect the client at all π€
I followed the instructions on this page. Go yell at nostr:npub1aghreq2dpz3h3799hrawev5gf5zc2kt4ch9ykhp9utt0jd3gdu2qtlmhct if their documentation is inaccurate:
βConnect your Nostr client (e.g., Damus, Amethyst) to your private relay for seamless backup of all Nostr activity. In Damus, add your Relay URL via Menu > Relays.β
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I donβt think thatβs true. Iβve removed it from my relay set before and it stops syncing.
I would never lie to you, but you might have to activate it

I actually tried to do that and it gave me an error message. Any suggestions on how to fix?

π this seems borked.
I hope nostr:nprofile1qqsw5t3us9xs3gmclzjm37hvk2yy6pv9t96utjjttsj794hexc5x79qpzamhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhgtcsy02rw can help here.