Hmm, I got it to work now. Don't know if you made any changes, or if it was something I did.
What I did was actually go into amethyst and change my one outbox relay from one that I was getting error messages from to nos.lol. I did that last night. And this morning when I tried relayopti it worked.
So maybe relayopti is trying to publish my changes through the broken relay that I already had?
I don't quite understand how I could be posting anything at all when my outbox was broken?