Private zaps are still zaps. There is still a nostr event created even if it’s not linked to your npub. It’s my understanding these are still included, but maybe I’m wrong.
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I just private zapped you saying i think it’s wrong. But now i’m wondering, why would it be called a zap then? So i’m now thinkibg you’re right. A “non-zap” is not a zap for sure though 😂
Yea a private/anon zap still create zap events. Non-zaps are just like paying a regular invoice, so no nostr events are generated with those and they wouldn’t show up in zap totals.