I think like farmers markets or cash to cash transactions off the centralized radar.

Things can be done similarly in Nostr with zaps, and still be decentralized if devs offer a value that is worth a subscription. (Needing a free version and a paid upgrade version to things).

People will pay for an upgrade. Devs just need to think of the financial part before coding.

I definitely do not want centralization. This would make me leave. But I will pay for great decentralized things.