Two guides (need to do this myself)

1.

#[4]​ guide on self-hosting own relay (Dec. ‘22)

- a bit old for how fast this stuff moves

- CLI; more technical

https://andreneves.xyz/p/set-up-a-nostr-relay-server-in-under

2.

Can self-host relay on Umbrel

- easiest, but I’m sure not easy to customize

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YjNa1MKvdrs