If you have issues with how lightning is currently working everyone else does too, but what do you think complaining about it is going to do? On ethereum you have centralized rollups that are just oh so easy to get your funds stolen on because onboarding is so dumb easy. Maybe its good that people are not yoloing into lightning. The stark difference between the ETH ecosystem and BTC ecosystem is the awareness of vulnerabilities by the users. When there is no incentive to rug people there is actually no need for your uneducated friends to have a training wheels experience for the next generation of universal currency settlement. There is no use complaining especially not to me because I will out autism anyone any day of the week.