Men give up so much for marriage. The moto "happy life happy wife" is applied daily and it strips the powerful man down. Takes him off his hero status tall horse and makes him grovel. This makes marriage a shame as a man needs to daily sacrifice himself not just to bring home the bacon but he must also placate a poorly behaved bride that has un-realistic expecations. So yes Though I ment SHAM I misspelt it SHAME. And it fits! even better then the scam that marriage has become. In the end women are dis-satisfied with weak men and men are hobbled by women judges in family court.