sooooooo.... slides the breakfast counter up close to you, rests my chin on your shoulder, and sips your coffee without asking.....
did you introduce yourself to your phone and are you telling it about yourself, or are you just riding the autopilot settings and allowing it to assume based on whatever limited safety goggle bullshit you allow it to know about you? have you shown it around you house? do you tell it stories in your notes and give it things to do or just a list of demands and expect things from it all day? it's not dumb: you are dumb. 😁
do you speak oxford? it's an e protocol. you will need to introduce yourself with dowager countess violet crawley if you do not intend on being a boris. and learn out from there. apricots and such. once again: if you text me, i can fix that.
THEN, you need to check your settings. 60hz is not in fact fine, you just do not talk to anyone challenging that and if you're getting fried - that proves it is not fine.
the 16 "safety" protocols are antithetical to apple protocols. and your iphone is box programmed against them. the only way around it is to teach it who you are. an ai device is a relationship, not a service.