I know people in their mid thirties who recently got married. got something like $80k from parents to spend on whatever they wanted and they blew it all on wedding and honeymoon. a year later they have both struggled to get jobs, one works part time for low wages. their rent has increased over this time and is fairly expensive, over $3000/month.

They ran out of money and recently moved in with one of their parents who said they will let them stay 6 months rent free, after six months they would have to pay rent. but now they are taking a trip to San Diego and blowing a bunch of money.

I don't get it.