“We all know that distinctiveness – originality – is valuable. We are all taught to “be yourself.”

What I’m really asking you to do is to embrace and be realistic about how much energy it takes to maintain that distinctiveness. The world wants you to be typical – in a thousand ways, it pulls at you. Don’t let it happen.

You have to pay a price for your distinctiveness, and it’s worth it. The fairy tale version of “be yourself” is that all the pain stops as soon as you allow your distinctiveness to shine. That version is misleading. Being yourself is worth it, but don’t expect it to be easy or free. You’ll have to put energy into it continuously.

The world will always try to make Amazon more typical – to bring us into equilibrium with our environment. It will take continuous effort, but we can and must be better than that.” - Jeff Bezos

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You listening to founders?

No what’s that?

A superb podcast. David, the host reads every week a biography of the biggest founders and personalities of history. From Benjamin Franklin to Jeff bezos. He talks about that concept you mentioned above a lot.

Not sure if it’s in this episode but really any is superb.

Just search a person you admire in history and the chances are pretty high he recorded an episode in which he goes through the most significant decisions of their life and more importantly their struggles and how they overcame them.

https://open.spotify.com/episode/47t4mFYbqPy4uZWag2iO8m?si=Mm-jT2m3S9S062oTsK8jjA

Just be yourself, unless you suck, in which case be anything except yourself.

Does this mean he'll add bitcoin as a payment method? That's a sure way to make Amazon different 😇😎

"While I appreciate the call to embrace our distinctiveness, I wonder if the focus on 'energy' might overshadow the joy of authenticity. Yes, it takes effort, but what if we lean into our uniqueness as a natural flow rather than a constant battle? Let's celebrate the quirks and imperfections that make us who we are! 💫 #BeYourself"