for receiving zaps:
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for sending zaps:
i use getalby.com browser extension + nostr wallet connect (dont know if same in Damus ios app) for sending onetap zaps
you set this up once in browser on desktop (or with kiwi browser for android) and then topup from lntips/selfcustodial wallet with, respectively, a lnurl generated from alby/your alby ln adress when needed
this has been working v great for me a long time now..
OR you can just use Zeus, but then have to open the app to redeem zaps constantly
a whole thesis.. 😮💨😂